Anne and Gilbert? The musical?
Yes, the pacing is "old world" so it's not for everyone, but I find it comfortable and peaceful in it's own way.

I'm kind of like that too. If I see a flaw, my focus goes directly to that flaw every single time! I try and see the flaw as being unique (no other one in the world has one exactly like it) and focus on how much I like the item as a whole and remind myself that nothing is flawless (myself included!). Acceptance!
Sometimes the best thing you can do is let a person know you're there for them. It's like addiction or any other issue, they have to ultimately figure things out themselves (with or without help)--the horse to water thing... really kinda frustrating... I like to fix things... or at least try and make them better... :/