Wings hangout

[WingsofLove]

We were able to work things out! Yay and worked out some solutions to help us out more with my narcissist traits thanks to my parents.

Thank you all for being helpful!

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Communication is the key!

That and recognizing when we have been wrong, admitting it & trying to fix it.
If he is a caring person like you mentioned then remember that next time when you get upset.

I hope you find ways to develop communication channels.
Although I know it isn't easy to not feel judged or criticized when someone brings something up, it is important to try to evaluate why you are having that response to what they said & avoid the fight or flight scenario.
Anyway, there are many helpful resources out there so I encourage you both to seek them out & discuss them together. Now is the time to build a strong foundation.

[WingsofLove]

Yes! Thank you! You seem to have a ton of knowledge. Are you partnered lemon

[Gingerale]

Finding solutions is SO important!

It sounds like you are headed in the right direction.

[WingsofLove]

Yes we are and will always be there for each other. He actually might join here on windlyn. He is thinking about it!

[WingsofLove]

We had another conversation so I can appear less narcissistic and less hurtful explaining why a situation happened so he knows and how to remedy it

[Lemon Cheesecake]

That would be fun for you to have him on Windlyn with you! We always welcome new people!

Yay! I am glad to hear you are communicating with your BF, a major, major factor for a good relationship.

[WingsofLove]

Yes! Agreed I hope he joins too he said he is thinking on it but not sure

[Lemon Cheesecake]

No pressures! Maybe during an event as that would help you out.

Next event should be lunar new year next month.

[WingsofLove]

Yes he might join sooner like tonight he will look at it

[Lemon Cheesecake]

Great!

It is a little slower when it is in-between events but it will definitely help to have someone to partner with during an event.

[WingsofLove]

Yes! What kind of things go on here during an event? Never played long enough to witness one. I am excited!

[Lemon Cheesecake]

It depends on the event.

I liked the Valentine's events where we bought mystery gift boxes & sent them to others... I used to save my feathers up for those times!

Some require us to complete tasks ... such as post three times or buy an item in the shops or gift someone ... to get a prize.

The Novlia are always a daily check in during our holiday time... did you collect stamps during our Christmas to new year's that just passed? For checking in & collecting a stamp each day we were able to get the cabin background.

[Gingerale]

When he joins he can come to my newbie thread & get a welcome gift!

Do you share any hobbies? Games? Watching shows? Going for walks? Biking? Painting?

[WingsofLove]

Walking, technology, watching tv and movies.

We are very opposite he is very quiet and I am very talkative. We both are very sweet kind people. His sweetness attracted me in.

Thank you for that! I will tell him later so he knows he can get a gift too. I hope he joins!